
Upon her recent announcement that she will be ending her daytime talk show which has successfully spanned for 25 years, media Queen Oprah Winfrey has received a number of varying responses. While she does have many who are sad to see her go, whether they are shocked about it or anticipated it, there is a shameful segment of the population who have decided to make their bitter, ignorant and selfish thoughts known on blogs, youtube comments, news story comments and polls.
There are those in the media who are and have been jealous of Oprah for some time. Their inability to compete with her star power has left some of them feeling helplessly bitter. And while that is certainly no justification for hating this world humanitarian television superstar, it should not be entirely unexpected in the competitive and often dishonest world of mainstream media culture.
However, there is unfortunately another group of average, everyday “Americans” who …do not entirely process information correctly, or at least through a moral lens. Oprah Winfrey is a SELF MADE WOMAN. No one GAVE her ANYTHING! Growing up in poor humble beginnings, during a shameful racist period in our country, the thought of someone like Oprah rising to even a local management position would seem unlikely. Born in Mississippi, and raised in Tennessee, this little dark skinned black girl endured sexual abuse and also got pregnant. Flash that statistic to any average citizen, and one can just see the assumptions popping into their heads. “Oh great, another WELFARE MOM depending on the GOVERNMENT to take care of her!” NO ONE would think that background could lead to the making of one of the most powerful and influential women in the world.

From the start, people counted Oprah out. There were her early coworkers who did not want to work with a woman who looked like her (a dark skin black woman with a short afro and personality). As she mentioned in her 20th Anniversary dvd set, nearly everyone except for Gayle counted her out. They even wanted her to change her name to Suzy, because they did not think anyone would be able to relate to the name Oprah.
However Oprah never quit. She decided to embrace herself for who she was, and share herself as she was with America. She worked hard and got her own show where she shared her life story with America. She interviewed everyday Americans with an empathy, warmth and love that had not really been seen before on daytime television. People of all backgrounds felt comfortable opening up with Oprah, and sharing their story on her show. And as a result, those shows were able to touch and help people all across the country (and eventually the world) as many other people were going through similar circumstances.

Oprah never claimed to be all knowing. She brought on experts in whatever topic was being discussed to speak with guests and educate the audience. She never got bashful of sharing her strengths and weaknesses, her successes and failures with her audience. And whether she was interviewing a celebrity, a head of state, a prostitute, a teacher, a struggling family, a homeless person, a movie star, a championship team, an injured/sick or deformed person, or anyone else, Oprah always showed them the same dignity, warmth, kindness, and respect no matter who they were or what their story was.

If you hate Oprah, ask yourself, what kind of person are you? Are you human? I’m not suggesting everyone must love Oprah, nor am I demanding that everyone be her loyal viewer. But how on earth can any decent person hate this woman? Is it because you can’t control her every move, as if she personally belongs to you?
Oprah did not just give to charity, she gave to EVERYONE. She gave to people in need, as well as held huge giveaways to her audience members. Promotions through her show have boosted authors to become best selling authors, and jolted sales for American businesses to the point where corporate America coined the phrase “The Oprah Effect”. She has interviewed Al Gore and George Bush during the elections. She interviewed Bill O’reilly and Frank Rich. She has held concerts of all different music genres.

Oprah has had the Make a Wish foundation, Wildest Dreams giveaway shows, Oprah’s favorite things show. She not only gives and gives and gives, but encourages and rewards others to give. Through Oprah other unknowns have gained jobs including Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, Rachel Ray, the employees of her magazines, the employees & actors of her films, etc.

As her show comes to a close, I hope some level of dignity comes from people and they celebrate how much this woman has accomplished despite the odds, and how many lives she has touched and helped. It would be pathetic if, through jealousy selfish ignorant people would zero in on how much money she has EARNED and get mad about her decisions AS A PRIVATE CITIZEN to support whoever she wanted to in this past election.

Every American has the right to a private life, free from the control and demand of others. And every American should be paid for their hard work and their success. Oprah became Oprah by being true to herself and helping and befriending others, no matter their status in life. It is time Oprah haters add some value to their own lives, and stop being bitter and jealous about the life of someone else.
Unlike many wealthy Americans, Oprah (like Michael Jackson) has been a giver. She didn’t bring down the economy through selfishness and risk taking like many of those on Wall Street. She didn’t go crawling to the government for aid, like AIG and the top banking execs who subsequently rewarded themselves for failing by paying themselves billions in bonus money they DID NOT DESERVE. She didn’t CHEAT people out of their money like Bernie Maddoff, or step on, kick, back-stab, or sleep her way to the top.
No, Oprah EARNED her money. She EARNED every penny of it, the old fashion, Conservative, capitalistic, American way. If you are a hater, don’t hate. Add some value to your own life, and focus on what YOU can do to be true to YOURSELF and help others.